Chris has a great job he has worked hard
in his career to climb the ladder of success
because he wants to provide a great life
for himself and his family.
(At this moment you are probably thinking
yeh that sounds about right,
Chris has a good job, good position and good income
he is successful.
Just picture Chris in your head for me
what does he look like,
what is he wearing
what sort of shape is he….)
At home his wife and kids haven’t seen him in 2 weeks
because his job calls for him to often work away,
He regularly works late,
or if he does make it home
he is on his phone checking in at work
or he is irate, irratic and angry because of work…
Chris is no longer ‘present’ in a conversation
as he is persistently checking his phone
for notifications from social media.
His mind is always racing, he has become a slave to
what other people think about him
his only free time now is spent on Facebook
as a means of reassurance,
a big blue thumbs up to how well he is doing…
(What does that picture in your head of Chris look like now?
Does he still seem as successful, has his demeanour changed, clothes,
His wife and him share a bed,
they haven’t had sex for months,
they are simply coexisting
no longer man and woman, husband and wife…
(Any of this seem familiar? How successful does Chris seem now?)
Nobody says on their death bed, ‘I wish I’d worked more’…
Your wife needs you to be the man she fell in love with,
strong and healthy in more than just bank balance and job security
so that you can be, husband and wife…
Your younger versions of you need a guide,
someone to lead them,
help them to make the right decisions for themselves.
Teach them how to be strong and healthy,
with the ability to converse face to face.
With these skills they won’t go far wrong…
True power and success is a measure of balance.
Up until now your view of balance is just not falling over.
Spinning plates to keep everything going
but always on the verge of everything collapsing around you.
Real balance is the ability to control force
so that not only do you not fall over
but you are able to do extraordinary things
because of the powerful forces you control.
It starts with you, amigo…
You have to take personal responsibility for your life thus far
the good and the bad, it all starts with you!
If you start from a place of strength in your body
you will create better relationships at home with your wife and kids
everything else doesn’t matter one little bit…
To be strong and healthy takes DAILY consistency, this is why I started
the Tough Love Project so that you can be the BEST version of yourself
you can be…
A daily approach to changing YOU…
(Just for the record,
imagine how confident and successful a man like this projects himself.
He can do whatever job takes his fancy for he is truly powerful… )
If you want to stop becoming like Chris then click the link to discuss your options
Paul ‘Powerful Gentleman’ Love
P.S. You could just keep spinning the plates but they always fall eventually.
Or you could make the decision NOW to start making your world a better place
but it starts with you…
click the link