‘Nursing a hangover on a Sunday
I found myself finishing the leftovers of the kids junk food dinner
then guzzling down the can of coke…
Still hungry so searched the cupboards for sugar laden snacks and fizzy harribo,
not even realising what I was doing until I was up the stairs getting into bed
and I caught a glimpse of a fat personal trainer in the mirror…
Sad and depressed surrounded by family and friends yet somehow lonely.
I’d done it again.
I had let the dark passenger take over!’
This was 2 years ago.
Caught up in the treadmill of life, I’d let ‘stuff’ take over
and rule my life and it was winning…
Any of this sound familiar my friend?
The pain, anguish and self pity that you feel at that very moment
is so powerful that it causes a shift…
When the shift happens (you might recognise it better as the ‘f**k it’ moment)
you’d better know how to harnace the power it contains or at least know who to turn to
as not knowing causes further implosion and spiralling depression,
Knowing how to use this power is nothing short of life changing!
“For the sake of your family and friends be TRUE
to what exactly it is that YOU need to be happy.
Don’t pretend like you’re doing them
any favours by leading a HALF LIFE.
You need to fit your own oxygen mask first…” <——— read that again
I hated the example I was setting,
the pain of my kids following my expample was just too much…
^^^ That was my driving force!
I’m an amazing Papa, I know I am,
but at that very moment I wasn’t.
Stressed, angry, pressured, miserable and inflamed,
this was the pain that I needed in order to take back my life from the dark passenger
he was consuming me from the inside out.
I had to stop living a lie, stop ‘partying hard’
(which is actually just a way of sedating yourself to hide the pain)
stop making crappy excuses that I needed to work harder to earn more money
busying myself with menial chores and tasks
not truly serving my clients but more just servicing them.
^^^ ever find yourself doing a lot of nothing???
Seemingly always busy but never getting forward, that’s a lot of nothing.
Sometimes seeing the darkness for yourself is the hardest part
you need someone to give you that Tough Love
I just Stopped…
just like you need to,
I rebuilt my life exactly how I wanted it to be,
walked out the back door of the health club
and with a few calls to some very good people
I was able to use the power of the shift…
It started with me,
move heavy stuff & eat right!
Then I added solid quality time each and everyday with Rachel and the kids…
I messaged out on Facebook for 5 lads and 5 lasses
who were in the same sort of pain and wanted to move forwards
Tough Love was born…
I gave them the exact blueprint I had used to sort myself out,
taking control of the parts of their life they could have control over,
move heavy stuff and eat right!
It will be the same for you,
watch the world around you change for the better!
Guess what happened…
My business flourished!
Everything became easy because of the WHY…
Gym was my meditation and time to be better
so that the example for my kids was to grow strong & healthy.
Work was easy because I had created the job and business I wanted to have,
I now work when I want, with who I want!
I’m better to be around
My relationship with my wife is amazing again
we want to be in each others company rather than just getting on with it…
and my kids will flourish,
I will have left my legacy!
What kind of example are you setting?
Wanna change it?
Take back control of your physique, your mind, your family and your money
All the information to apply for my step by step blueprint to having it all
is on the next page but be warned,
it’s a huge commitment to change your life and it’s not for everybody
click the link
or don’t, just stay exactly as you are right now. Jumping from one facebook page to another
collecting data and prices BUT NEVER DOING ANYTHING
I’m sure you’ll start Monday…
Paul ‘Tough’ Love
P.S. I can help you feel better than you’ve ever felt in your life and it’s guaranteed!
You just have to click the link to start your change…